I know Lynn - sometimes people have fear of the unknown or feel like toys will replace them. This may be the case with your bf.
So, first, let me share how incorporating a sex toy into a relationship can keep things fresh, sexy, and can allow partners to find new pleasure options.
Reason # 1 - Sex toys are created to provide intimate fun during your sex play
By introducing a sex toy into a relationship, partners are opening an avenue for healthy communication about their sex life.
Intimate pleasure products provide a way to discover new erogenous zones, experience stronger orgasms by helping to draw blood to genitalia, and can heighten levels of pleasure.
Reason #2 - Make love last longer
For men, erection rings (also called c-rings, penis rings, and cock rings) are worn around the base of the penis to help extend erections and can help lengthen lovemaking by delaying ejaculations.
Reason #3 - Orgasms. Lots and lots of orgasms
For women, I always suggest starting with a simple clitoral stimulator to start.
I recommend this for a couple of reasons. First, according to a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, women only orgasm 62.9% with their partners, and many cannot orgasm through penetration so adding a vibrator specifically created to provide clitoral stimulation almost always guarantees an incredible partner experience.
And, I would suggest using a sex toy during foreplay since women need an average of 20 minutes for their bodies to prepare for penetration.
Another reason I suggest a clitoral vibrator is because they can also be used to provide sensual pleasure on a variety of erogenous areas – nipples, the frenulum (the male equivalent of the clitoris), testes, inner thighs, etc., which leads to amazing sexual exploration.
The Fantasy For Her Vibrating Petite Arouse-Her is a good place to start. It's petite, non-threatening and easy to use with a simple press-on button to turn on. And it can slide in between you and your bf during sex play for wonderful clitoral stimulation.
Lastly Lynn, let you bf know that you enjoy him and a sex toy isn't going to replace him ;-)
I would also plan a sexy date night reveal to introduce your bf to your new sex toy. When your bf sees how fun sex toys can be, chances are he'll want to try even more of them!
Lynn, please let me know how it goes. Have fun!