I can understand your concern, Jeremy. But, that's usually not what happens.

*Fun Fact: it’s been proven that vibrators have the opposite effect, making women feel more sensual and boosting their sex-drive rather than lowering it!

Getting your…

Excellent question Maggie! Having been a part of sex toy design teams since 2000 I can share a little trick with you ;-) 

To test vibration on a massager you can place the vibrator on the tip of your…

Nattie :-) Thank you so much for your message!

I completely understand how nipple clamps can be confusing and scary. Yes, some even appear dangerous. But, they can be a source of wonderful fun and pleasure! Allow me to…

Hi Laurie,

Almost everyone feels frisky in Spring ;-) You're not alone. 

Whether you’re single or partnered, Spring is THE BEST time to enjoy those long, warm days and explore your sensual side. When it’s hot…

Hi "Doug" ;-) 

Thank you for reaching out for information for your friend. You've come to the right place. Let me walk you through a general guide on how to use a penis pump - also called an erection…

Hi Susie,

You're not alone. A tilted uterus occurs in less than 20% of women and can also be called a tipped uterus, retroflexed uterus, retroverted uterus, uterine retroversion, backward uterus or uterine retro displacement. Most women are born…

I'm a soon-to-be dad and I understand that there most likely isn't going to be any regular sex with my wife until after she fully heals and recovers from the pregnancy.  I can take matters into my own hands (pun…

Hi Liz,

I like dice. They’re small, non-threatening, and require no instructions at all. Plus, they’re perfect for travel because of their petite size.

While there are a lot of different dice available out there, I suggest…

Great question Chris!

I too have heard the stories stating it wasn’t a good idea to use a silicone lubricant with silicone toys. This was because in the past some toys were labeled silicone but were often made of…

Hi Becca,

Yep, I get anal sex questions quite often and pegging is becoming more and more popular. I appreciate you allowing me to offer some advice.

We want to try pegging – where do we even start? …

Hi Lucille,

Thank you for allowing me to help! 

Spanking can be sexy, scary, exhilarating, satisfying, fun - all at the same time. Now, you didn't give me a lot to go on with your message so I'm…

Jenny, thank you for reaching out! I know the world of pleasure products is vast and sometimes intimidating. Allow me to give you some pointers. 

For your very first vibe I recommend something small and primarily used for external…